XOX0XOXO...AMY...XOXOXOXO
ALWAYS IN OUR HEARTS
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THIS IS A BEAUTIFUL "FREE" IMAGE
THAT I FOUND AT:
MOST OF YOU KNOW MOLLYE. I HAD NOT
BEEN TO HER BLOG BEFORE. IT IS WONDERFUL.
JUST LAST MONTH SHE WROTE HOW SHE NO
LONGER WANTED TO JUST POST ABOUT
"FLUFF" BUT "SERIOUS ISSUES." I STRONGLY
AGREE WITH HER. SHE HAS A
WONDERFUL SENSE OF HUMOR AND GOD
IS REALLY GOING TO USE HER. HE WAS
PREPARING HER HEART FOR WHAT WAS
TO COME.
PLEASE REMEMBER MOLLYE AND HER
FAMILY AS TODAY IS HER YOUNGEST SON'S
FUNERAL/GOING HOME CELEBRATION.
THEY CAN CELEBRATE HE IS IN THE ARMS
OF JESUS BUT THERE IS GRIEF, NO MATTER
HOW STRONG ONE'S FAITH IS. I'M SORRY,
BUT WHEN AMY PASSED I DID NOT FEEL
LIKE CELEBRATING EVEN THOUGH I HEARD
A 1,000 TIMES SHE WAS BETTER OFF. I
ASK....WOULD YOU BE BETTER OFF WITHOUT
YOUR CHILD!!!!
I PRAY FOR SUPPORT OF FAMILY AND FRIENDS.
MAY THEY NEVER FEEL JUDGEMENT OR THEIR
SPIRIT BE BROKEN.
MAY THEY ONLY HEAR THE VOICE OF JESUS
AND LOVE. MAY ONLY GOOD THINGS BE
SAID AND REMEMBERED ABOUT HER
PRECIOUS SON.
MAY THEY GRIEVE AS LONG AS NEEDED,
AND NOT BE RUSHED INTO DOING SOME-
THING THEY ARE NOT READY FOR.
MY HEART BREAKS FOR HER, HER HUSBAND,
AND CHILDREN.
HUGS AND LOVE TO YOU MOLLYE
YOU CANNOT RUSH GRIEF
IT IS A PROCESS WITH NO
SHORTCUTS.
IT'S UGLY...IT IS HARD...IT IS LONELY
BUT THIS TOO SHALL PASS...
I KNOW NOT WHEN, IF EVER
BUT JESUS IS ALWAYS THERE
24/7
HE WILL STICK CLOSER THAN A BROTHER
AND HE NEVER TALKS BEHIND YOUR BACK
I HAVE CRIED ALL DAY BECAUSE NOTHING...
NO BOOK, NO AMOUNT OF MONEY,
CAN PREPARE YOU TO SEE THE CASKET
WITH YOUR SON/DAUGHTER BE LOWERED
INTO THE GROUND.
HUGS AND LOVE
SIMPLY DEBBIE
16 comments:
Oh Debbie, I am so sad for you, too. For all who suffer. None suffer more than a mother who buries her child. The universe is out of whack completely when that happens. As you say, nothing can assuage such a grief, and let them grieve!!!! Idiots and those fearful of death themselves push others to stop grieving. No time is allowed. It's ridiculous. Some people even question others' faith but they really need to go read the entire New Testament again and get their heads on straight.
I know Mollye is going through a lot right now and she's in my thoughts, sweetpea. Terrible tragedy.
xoxo,
Connie
I too thought of and prayed for Miss Mollye today, the sad part is the pain has only just begun.....we must continue our prayers for her and her family.
Thank you for being such a good blogging friend to us all.
......:-) Big Hugs
OH DEBBIE,SO VERY SORRY TO HEAR OF MOLLYE'S LOSS, I CAN'T EVEN BEGIN TO IMAGINE THE PAIN. MY SYMPATHIES TO HER AND HER FAMILY AND TO YOU BECAUSE YOU ALREADY KNOW THE AGONY. HOPE RICHARD IS DOING BETTER, I AM SURE IT WAS A VERY HARD DAY FOR HIM. DID YOUR SON GET TO VISIT?? I SURE HOPE SO!! BEEN
PRAYING GOR YOU BOTH, WILL PRAY FOR MOLLYE AND HER FAMILY AS WELL.
I AM SURE EVERY TIME YOU HEAR OF ANOTHER PARENT LOSING A CHILD, IT MUST BE LIKE TEARING A SCAB OFF YOUR OWN HEART AS WELL, I AM SO VERY SORRY!!
HUGS AND LOVES TO YOU BOTH, NELLIE
What wonderful words of consolation for Mollye and her family. I have been thinking of her all day. She is so full of faith she will carry on for sure.
QMM
Oh! Debbie I will remember Mollye and her family, during this most difficult time. Your post is so on target and you Dear One can not only sympathize with her, you are empathizing as well. You have been there and you know what they are experiencing.
I totally agree with you on everything but most importantly on not being rushed during a grieving time. I find that we as humans have a tendency to expect others to follow our mold, and what a mistake this is. So please keep reminding us all of what we need to do. What a blessing you are.
Hugs,
Sue
Debbie what beautiful words especially because they really come from the heart & I hope they soothe both Mollye & at the same time ease some of your pain for your beautiful Amy. I am thinking of both of you today...
Lyn xxx
Debbie,
You said it best. I need not say more. We know how it feels. My heart goes out to Mollye's family. There is nothing like losing a child. The only thing that gets me through some days is knowing I will see my sweet Amber again one day :)
HUGS!
Donna
Oh Debbie, I just read your post and I am crying so that I can barely type but I thank you for your love and support from the bottom of my broken heart. I will be in touch with you and again thank you and all my blogger sisters for sharing in our grief and helping in our healing, Mollye
HELLO DEBBIE,
I CAN ONLY IMAGAINE THE PAIN YOU MUST HAVE SUFFERERD OVER THE LOST OF YOUR BEAUTIFUL DAUGHTER, I WISH YOU PEACE, DEAR SWEET AND GENTLE DEBBIE WHEN MY AUNT LOST HER ONLY SON, I THOUGHT SHE WOULD NEVER HEAL, AND I STILL SHE HER PAIN AND LOST WHEN EVER SHE TALKS ABOUT HIM!!! BUT THERE ARE TIMES SHE SMILES AND I KNOW SHE IS REMEMBERING HIM :) HAVE A GOOD DAY AND THANK YOU SOOO MUCH FOR YOUR KIND WORDS FOR MY PEBBLES :)
BLESSING TO YOU SWEET BLOGGY FRIEND :)
Oh Debbie - as you well know - her journey is just beginning and she now belongs to a club no mother wants to belong too. Prayers for youo both. sandie
Debbie...you are SIMPLY GOLDEN! I will keep Mollye and her family in my prayers as well. My parents had 8 children (I'm the baby, go figure). All of my life I would hear my Mom say she didn't know how anyone could ever survive burying a child. My Dad passed away 4 years ago of cancer. He had been sick for a couple of years. Mom was starting to re-bound and get back into things like her gardening clubs and book clubs. My brother was diagnosed with brain cancer 8 months later and passed away almost a year to the day of our Dad. Mom has never recovered, she told us she wouldn't.
I'm so proud of you for using your tragedy to reach out and help others. Mollye is so fortunate to have you....as are we all~
Take good care, my friend...
♥,Lilly
Oh how nice to meet a new friend and to be able to help when they are in need.
Hugs, Lisa
This was so so sad. Poor Mollye. Sometimes you have to wonder which would be harder, to lose a child so suddenly and not get the chance to say goodbye or to get to say goodbye, but have to see your precious child suffer so, like you had to do. They are both so very horrible. I am glad Mollye has you to lean on in this terrible time, I am sure she appreciates your support very much.
I'm new to your blog through Heidi and Sherry so I don't know Mollye but I sent cards to Amy and prayed faithfully through that painful time you went through.
I too, am very content to know you are there for this family. None of us, unless we've walked down the path of loosing a precious child could fully understand.
God is with all of you, I know that for sure. When we don't understand, thank you Jesus, we know the one that does understand.
~Jacqueline~
Hi Debbie, it's nice to meet you. Thanks for stopping by my blog the other day!!
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